Rita Ellen Modesto

The family of Rita Ellen Modesto shares the passing of their beloved wife, mother, and grandmother on March 8, 2026. Born September 17, 1954, in Merced, California, Rita passed away peacefully in her home surrounded by family.

Rita was preceded in death by her daughter, Lisa Rubalcava, infant son, Timoteo Modesto, Mother and Father, Robert and Connie Gonzales and Sister Rosemary Carrasco.

Throughout her life, Rita held several roles that reflected her caring nature, spending many years working as a medical assistant in San Francisco, worked in the restaurant industry, and later earned her cosmetology license. She was a devoted wife and mother who found great fulfillment in caring for others and bringing people together.

She will be lovingly remembered by her husband, Jess; her son, Tim (Sarah); her stepson, Jay Modesto; stepdaughter, Angelina McCrady (Brian); and her many grandchildren, extended family members, and friends.

Rita had a vibrant spirit and a love for life. She enjoyed live music, dancing to lively Mexican songs, cheering on her favorite teams, the San Francisco 49ers and the Giants, and most of all spending time celebrating with family.

A celebration of Rita’s life will be held on April 25, 2026 from 12:30 to 5:30 PM at the Woodland Hotel Banquet Facility in Woodland, California.

While we will miss her dearly, we take comfort knowing Rita now watches over us as our guardian angel. And whenever a hummingbird crosses our path, we will remember that love never truly leaves us.

“Goodbye may seem forever. Farewell is like the end, but in my heart is the memory and there you will always be.”